My perfect date

For me its not just about dressing up like a girl, I enjoy the process, the feelings, the acts. I enjoy doing the things that women get to do that men normally don't. I want to know what its like not just to dress like a female but what is it like to be a female. I can have a difficult time with this because I feel like I'm pretending, but it's an interesting study in perspective. I have been out in public many times, so going out is no longer that big of a deal. I enjoy it but I have done it before. One thing I haven't really done is go on a date as a female. An actual date with someone I could get to know, flirt with and see where things go.

But if I did that what are some girly things I would enjoy.

- I think my ideal location for going on a date would be in Las Vegas. There are so many restaurants and bars and fun things to see and do. I would happily go the The Peppermill Fireside Lounge for an ice cream drink, my favorite is the Pink Squirrel. I would equally enjoy going out for a drink at The Sunset Lounge in Hyde at Bellagio, a fun romantic spot to watch the fountains. I could also enjoy a nice meal and conversation at Mon Ami Gabi at Paris.

- I think I would be happy either meeting my date out at our predetermined location or having them pick me up at my door and going out. While I have gone out solo dressed up in Las Vegas, It's just easier to be with someone else. You can talk to them and not think about everyone looking at you.

- It may sound corny or old fashioned and probably sets feminism back a few decades, but I think it would be fun to have my date order for me. Something like, "I'll have a gin and tonic and she'll have a Pink Squirrel."

- I would consider myself lucky to have a commemorative picture with my date. Sometimes the bars or restaurants will have an on site photographer who takes pictures to sell to the patrons. I could lean in and try to look cute for our photograph, hanging onto my dates arm.

- As we sat and chatted while getting to know each other it would be exciting if my date leaned in to whisper sweet nothings in my ear. What can I say, I'm a romantic.

- I do consider myself more passive. I like someone to take charge, just not overly aggressive or mean spirited.

- Assuming things went well on the date I would very much enjoy a limo ride on The Strip. My date wouldn't be able to keep their hands to themselves and would get a little "handsy" in the back of the limo.

- A lovely stroll along the promenade in front of the Bellagio to watch a fountain show could be nice too. Being out in public, on the arm of my date, holding my hand or with their arm  around my waist.

 - I would enjoy the little things associated with being treated like a lady; having doors held open for me, help getting up or down in my chair or into or out of a limousine.

- It is Las Vegas after all so a quick stop at the roulette table to make a bet, even if it is just one bet. Just being there with my date who is proud to be out with me just as I am proud to be out with them in public.

- These items above, of course, are more about romance, but that doesn't mean I can't be a little risque too. 

- Public displays of affection anywhere from a light peck to a full kiss or maybe having my ass grabbed surreptitiously could be fun.

- I do own a Hush toy by Lovense which can be worn in public and is quiet enough to not be noticed by casual bystanders. It is managed via an app on an iPhone so your partner can sneak in some exciting playtime while sitting in a restaurant or walking around town.

- Again if things go well and we have some private time together I prefer a sensual encounter, no bondage or rough treatment. I want to be taken and feel like a woman whether that is lying on my back with my legs wrapped around my lovers waist, taking it doggy style or riding them like a cowgirl.

- Sex is not just about me either, I want my date to enjoy themselves and I have another toy that everyone seems to enjoy, a Hitachi Magic Wand. Fun for all and all for fun.

- I also have a bit of an exhibitionist quality to me, as if wandering around Las Vegas dressed as a girl wasn't enough. The thought of standing in my lingerie in front of floor to ceiling windows caressing my lover excites me. Are the room lights on bright enough to be seen from below? The windows are so far away across the Bellagio lakefront, even if they could see would anyone even be paying attention? That is exciting to me.

-  I do tend to overthink things and may end up "topping from the bottom". A giant list of things I would enjoy might fall into this category. Of course I would enjoy any one of these things, or just a few of them. I certainly don't need to do all of them. Maybe my date would like to see or do something they like or show me something I never knew existed. It's a two way street.

- One last comment. Not everyone wants to be in a picture but might be happy to take a photo of me instead of with me. Maybe they don't want to stand in front of a window for everyone to see or even something simple like drink alcohol. All things have to be consensual. It doesn't matter if you are a male, or a female or a male dressed as a female. Consent is mandatory.